Alzheimers symptoms generally fall into several areas but it is first important to understand that *everyone has occasional memory problems*
At least I do.
So it’s a fairly normal part of being alive to “forget” something (like birthdays but hopefully not anniversaries). And forgetting something doesn’t mean you have Alzheimer’s.
I look at it as being in the moment. And the length of that moment simply shortens as the diseease progresses. So while healthy folks have very long moments – years in fact – those with Alzheimer’s or early Alzheimers symptoms have progressively shorter moments till they become measured in minutes or seconds.
Here are some of the Alzheimer’s symptoms.
Increasing the number of times you forget something and the persistence of this.
So you tend to forget recent things, you forget more of them and this doesn’t get better with time. Note that sometimes medications can cause symptoms of forgetfullness or
confusion. I routinely forget the names of people I’ve met but the Alzheimer’s patient forgets names of people they’ve known well. This progresses until even family members can’t be recognized.
Abstract thinking becomes more difficult.
For example, if you’ve always had trouble balancing the checkbook, then you don’t have Alzheimer’s. But if you start having trouble and can’t seem to get it right over time – then this is an example of abstract thinking degrading. Numbers are one thing that seems to be a target and obvious symptom for many folks. The ability to deal with things that contain numbers is abstract thinking.
Ever have trouble finding the right word.
As a writer, this is a feature of my everyday life but when it starts becoming worse, then it’s a symptom. The use of language degrades and eventually even writing or reading become difficult.
Disorientation in time and date.
This has been one of the marked Alzheimers symptoms in my family and it progressively gets worse as the disease progresses. Knowing what date or even day of the week it is disappears.
There’s a loss of the ability to plan or make judgements about situations.
So it is entirely possible to plan to make dinner but forget to take the burning pot off the burner. Or to think you’ve eaten dinner when you haven’t.
Again, this starts with small things and progresses.
Burning pots and the associated fire risks are often one of the signals that families use to obtain care for their loved one. A friend told me she hadn’t known how bad the problem was with her mother until she found multiple sets of old pots/pans cardboard packing boxes in the basement.
Cooking or other sequential tasks become harder to do as one part of the sequence is forgotten.
If you see a sequence changing, then you might want to pay attention. In my grandfather’s case, he always went to work on the same streetcar, same route, same
time but one day he forgot where the streetcar stopped. That was his last day of work.
Mood swings or personality changes might occur.
Stubborness, distrust, anger or the opposite – complete goodwill towards all mankind might emerge. One friend’s mother, who was quite the harridan while we were growing up became all light, love and good cheer as the disease progressed.
Restlessness or increased anxiety and inappropriate behavior might occur.
Most Frightening Thing
One of the most frightening things is that individuals with this disease know it is happening to them.
And they hide it, keeping the problems to themselves for as long as possible.
Even family doctors are not told. So when we do finally recognize some of the extreme behaviors, we also recognize the smaller signs that had been present for some time. My mother developed excellent coping skills and her actiing ability was such that not even close friends knew she had no idea who they were during their conversations.
These are the basic early Alzheimers symptoms in plain language and I hope they help you understand a bit better.
As with all things, a little bit of these things may be normal but it’s the pattern of them that add up to the diagnosis.
Bottom line
One of the first questions I asked our family physician was how long this was going to last – how long did my formerly extremely-bright mother have to live with this problem – her own version of hell?
The answer was a little surprising. Once Alzheimers symptoms are confirmed and the diagnosis is made, the average lifespan is 8 years.
The first three years are the best in terms of performance but survival and problems increase dramatically after that.
So the pattern of Alzheimers symptoms we saw are simply getting worse month by month.